Good post I'llbeedan, you made me go re-read my own post, and yes, my post does look like I'm drawing a direct comparison between that old guy, and TenBears.
Should state clearly that the two do not directly compare and i portrayed that poorly. I did used to read and enjoy Tenbears, he is a different person entirely.
What I was trying to get across although i didn't state it very well, was letting the guilt factor go if you find yourself the "perpetrator" in such a case, long as you did not do anything wrong or go beyond normal internet discussion.
"Thinking Inside The Box"