Its about having an ability to discuss resistance raising in pursuit of a sustainable and meaningful version of 'treatment-free'.
Try to get this:
When you and Solomon say 'treatment-free' you are talking about fundamentally different approaches.
That is where the problem lies.
That is what I'm trying to show you.
If when I said 'car' you thought I meant 'train', and vice-versa, and we were making arrangements to travel together, we'd get in a pickle, wouldn't we?
The forum is in a pickle. Some of us are trying to make clear why, and propose routes out. (Others can't see the problem/don't want a way out)
You can play talking-at-cross-purposes for ever. Or you can have a place where sensible people can have valuable discussions. Its your call.