I think I need to be clear about something. These are good neighbors. We have shared many things over the years. In fact this year when my tractor broke right before tilling time, he lent me his Kabota. Now that's down right neighborly. I would like this (bee fear) to simply blow over... maybe it will. Perhaps I live in wishful-thinking-land.
Do you think I should talk to her husband? Or would that escalate things?